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Showing posts with label spiritual attack. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spiritual attack. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

In the Word Wednesday (Ch. 6) - Satan the Ultimate Bully

Welcome back to our In the Word Wednesday posts. We took a brief break last week in preparation for Hope Retreat, but are excited to be back to our study of And Then You Were Gone: Restoring a Broken Heart After Pregnancy Loss by Becky Avella. You can read previous posts by clicking on the following links:


This week's chapter was titled Satan the Ultimate Bully: Surviving Spiritual Attack. Wow, I can't tell you how timely this was in my own life. I have felt the presence of the enemy as he plots his schemes. This was particularly noted in preparation for the Hope Retreat, because of course he would want nothing more than to sabotage the plans of a group of Jesus-lovin' women who seek to gather and bring glory to our God! Still, in light of my own losses, satan continues to torment.

In this chapter, Becky points out the subtlety of satan's ploys. Some of the ways in which she was personally attacked include fear, self-doubt, temptation, and sometimes sinful thoughts. In the face-to-face bible study last night, we discussed how each of us could relate to some of these attacks. What about you? In what ways have you identified spiritual battle unfolding in the aftermath of your own loss?

I love how Becky shared some wonderful insight with us from Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee. She shared his wisdom on just how to take captive every thought and to make it obedient to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). This process involves four steps...

1) Identify
Here is where you come to recognize the lies that you've bought into in the midst of your grief. Some of the ones we discussed last night included be overly fearful and/or afraid of the future, believing our losses were some sort of punishment for sin, or feelings of inferiority and as if we aren't worthy of God's love and sanctification. What lies can you identify for yourself?

2) Repent
Here is where you pray to God and ask forgiveness for believing the lie! What comfort to know that we can approach God directly in our prayers and ask Him to remove this thought far from our hearts and minds.

3) Reject
In acknowledging, repenting, and asking God to remove the lie far from us, we are rejecting the thought that once captivated us. Vow to see it for what it is...a lie of the devil, and cast it far from your precious souls!

4) Replace
Finally, through this process, we can replace the lie with Truth. It can be a Scripture passage or verse from God's Word, or a simple Truth about who God is and what He wants for us!

We worked through each of the lies mentioned above and were collectively able to realign our hearts on minds on Truth. That is a very freeing thing, mommies!

I would love to hear from you in the comments. What lies do you need to identify today that we can search and replace with Truth? Let's share this burden and seek to live victoriously in Jesus, our Lord!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Recognize the Battle

Mommies ~ I earnestly seek your prayers for a fellow mommy, Becky in Iowa, who was scheduled to deliver her baby this morning. Her little girl, diagnosed with Turner's Syndrome most recently, had already gone to be with Jesus. Please pray for Becky as she gives birth to this precious baby, and as she embarks on a tough road ahead.

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This post is the second of a series of posts this week, aimed toward preparing our hearts for our upcoming Hope Retreat! Even if you are not attending, there is some truth for you, so please keep reading. To read yesterday's post...the first of this series, click here.

Yesterday, we discussed all the many details that have to come together as we prepare for a night away this upcoming weekend, as we embark on our Hope Retreat. While all the details are important and necessary, I encouraged each of us to remember and prioritize the preparation of our hearts. Today, we will continue this discussion, focusing on our need to...

Recognize the Battle

What do you mean, recognize the battle? What battle? I know things are pretty hectic and busy and I may have even had a little tiff with my hubby this morning, but I wouldn't full out call it a battle! Can you relate? I know that this week has already been filled with distractions and unexpected happenings and expenses [hello new computer!] that have taken my attention and my heart off of the spiritual preparation for this weekend. I've spoken with others of you who are dealing with similar "battles" including sick children, childcare issues, husband's work schedules, your own work schedules, and the list goes on. What have your "battles" looked like this week?

Consider this verse from 2 Chronicles...

"This is what the Lord says to you, 'Do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army. For the battle is not yours, but God's.'"
2 Chronicles 20:15

Afraid. Discouraged. Vast Army. Battle. Wow...this verse is packed with all kinds of crummy stuff that I can relate to. Still, the hope lies in the last sentence of the verse, which says, "For the battle is not yours, but Gods." Relief! It's not our battle to fight, ladies. Satan, our enemy, is working against us always. He comes to wreak havoc on our lives, if we'd let him, and he seeks to destroy our relationships with others and with our God. Do not give him a foothold, especially as you work to prepare your homes and your hearts for this God-ordained time away.

I realize that the tasks must be accomplished and the issues must be resolved and we certainly have a role in making those things happen. The power we have, which comes from Christ, lies in our ability to choose to do so with joy and thanksgiving, equipped with the full armor of God. When we recognize the battle for what it really is - a sly form of spiritual warfare - scheming against our attempts to bring glory to our God, we can take that step back remember Who we belong to, and persevere. I leave you with the wise words of Paul from his letter to the Ephesians, where he says...

"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but...against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."
Ephesians 6:10-12

What battles are you currently facing? How can we pray for you? What can you do, in God's power, to reign victoriously through the battle?